38/M to 31/F
Subject: Hi
Thank you for posting here. How's it going? I apologize for interrupting your busy day, but I hope you and your family are well and happy. I invite you to make a cup of tea before reading this email, because you might want to spend some quality time reading this. Trust me on this... Okay?
Listen: my name is XXXX and I am a fun, loving, passionate, intelligent, and resourceful man living in XXXX XXXXXX. I think that we are looking for the same thing; love in a happy and fulfilling relationship. I'm looking to grow a quality long-term relationship to celebrate life; I am open to the possibility that could be with you - unless you‚ would rather live your life without a man's energy.
I read your profile a couple times and I think you are like a multifaceted diamond and that's very cool! I'm curious about what you shared. For example, I noticed that you mentioned you are thoughtful, intuitive, spending a lot of time looking at maps and spreadsheets, handy in the kitchen and it looks like you are involved in some pretty interesting projects that you can't explain succinctly to save your life.
I find it fascinating that you are really good at many different fun things like collecting of vintage cameras and I like how you represent yourself. I enjoyed reading that you seem pretty sure of yourself. I appreciate the perspective you hold in the world. What would happen if everyone did the things you did? I think the world would be a much more interesting place. What do you think?
Anyway, I am offering to give you what you're looking for from a man, my masculine energy, good listening, communication, abundant life, friends and worldly skills with you.
Let's take our time to get to know each other and earn each other's trust, go on romantic walks, become comfortable sharing some laughs, star gaze and have some fun! You know, when I take you out on dates, I don't know whether our new adventures will turn into incredibly exciting experiences or just wonderfully fun times, but it sure is going to feel good when we go out and laugh a lot, isn't it?
And of course, before you get that far, there is that excitement you get when you're with someone new who you think you could fall in love with. That "can't get 'em out of your head, smiling until your cheeks hurt" kinda feeling; that blissful agony of having to wait until the next time you see 'em...mushy stuff, I know, but honestly, I think that's a good feeling to never grow out of. I probably will never grow out of it. I don't need a relationship with you, I desire a relationship with you.
And of course, before you get that far, there is that excitement you get when you're with someone new who you think you could fall in love with. That "can't get 'em out of your head, smiling until your cheeks hurt" kinda feeling; that blissful agony of having to wait until the next time you see and touch them again...mushy stuff, I know, but honestly, I think that's a good feeling to never grow out of. I probably will never grow out of it.
I'm interested in meeting someone new. You!
I don't know how exactly you'll absolutely convince yourself that what I am saying is totally true and right and the more you might resist that suggestion a more deeper and much more open part of you is beginning to find reasons why it's true. I'm your match. Maybe not for the reasons I suggest but your own and that's how you can know it's true for you is because you yourself are having those feelings it isn't me. And you don't argue with your own feelings do you?
After the obligatory back and forth emails and you feel a connection developing to the point of attraction I invite you get together and smile and chat with me at a cafe or restaurant convenient for you. When you think about it like that are you aware of how much more it makes you really look forward to doing it?
Thank you for your time. I'd appreciate an answer either way just so I know I've connected with you. Now here's an interesting question: what would love do now? I invite you to answer that question now.
My time is fairly open because I am the boss of my businesses.
Maybe we owe it to ourselves to talk.... I'm curious to find out about the person wrapped inside all the pretty.
~ XXXX
